Grinding
Alright, feel like bitching today...Lately it seems like I've really just needed to complain about a lot of things because they seem to be coming up more and more frequently.
First off I'd like to say that I really hate it when people talk down to me as if I'm an idiot. I mean honestly people how the hell do you think I became a damned honor student if I'm too stupid to tie my own shoe. Okay so maybe I just have "book smarts", doesn't mean a lick towards knowing how the "real world" works right? Ever consider that I really try to keep a lot of what I notice about people to myself? And considering how much I DO say, and rather bluntly I might add, that should lead you to assume that there's even more that I don't. As a rule, people really don't like hearing things about themselves unless it's positive, you know it's true...Everyone hates being cut down (I'll get to this later). And I never say anything about anyone without expecting it to get back to them, without fail it will happen. And so what if I like to act like a "clown", does this too automatically mean "he goofs off, therefore is ignorant of the world". The worst part is when you DO see a problem or just notice anything, it's always brushed off as coincidence or an exaggeration. Although I do enjoy someone that has taken ONE psychology course in university, suddenly becomes an expert on anything and everything.
Next is gossip. I HATE gossip. But not just the regular run of the mill gossip, I hate it especially when I tell something to a person, and they somehow feel the need to tell others. Even if what I told them applies to other people, I still think that if I wanted to tell them I can do it myself. There's probably a reason I hadn't told others and I don't need someone to do it for me I can work through that in my own time.
Now joking around and "poking fun" at people really seems to be common among friends right? But then...Sure you're just joking around but when it's the only thing you hear constantly it starts to wear thin and piss me off. Kind of a heads up...If I start snapping at you and just generally being a complete asshole, chances are that you've crossed WAY over this line and have already really started to piss me off. And fine, I DO make fun of myself from time to time, but that's not an open invitation to use the same thing over and over later because I used it and thusly justified it.
First off I'd like to say that I really hate it when people talk down to me as if I'm an idiot. I mean honestly people how the hell do you think I became a damned honor student if I'm too stupid to tie my own shoe. Okay so maybe I just have "book smarts", doesn't mean a lick towards knowing how the "real world" works right? Ever consider that I really try to keep a lot of what I notice about people to myself? And considering how much I DO say, and rather bluntly I might add, that should lead you to assume that there's even more that I don't. As a rule, people really don't like hearing things about themselves unless it's positive, you know it's true...Everyone hates being cut down (I'll get to this later). And I never say anything about anyone without expecting it to get back to them, without fail it will happen. And so what if I like to act like a "clown", does this too automatically mean "he goofs off, therefore is ignorant of the world". The worst part is when you DO see a problem or just notice anything, it's always brushed off as coincidence or an exaggeration. Although I do enjoy someone that has taken ONE psychology course in university, suddenly becomes an expert on anything and everything.
Next is gossip. I HATE gossip. But not just the regular run of the mill gossip, I hate it especially when I tell something to a person, and they somehow feel the need to tell others. Even if what I told them applies to other people, I still think that if I wanted to tell them I can do it myself. There's probably a reason I hadn't told others and I don't need someone to do it for me I can work through that in my own time.
Now joking around and "poking fun" at people really seems to be common among friends right? But then...Sure you're just joking around but when it's the only thing you hear constantly it starts to wear thin and piss me off. Kind of a heads up...If I start snapping at you and just generally being a complete asshole, chances are that you've crossed WAY over this line and have already really started to piss me off. And fine, I DO make fun of myself from time to time, but that's not an open invitation to use the same thing over and over later because I used it and thusly justified it.
Seriously, I could probably keep going here but I do believe it is time for sleep.
-Matt
posted by Happy Death at 1:27 a.m.
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